Question: Does this make me gay/ Am I gay/Am I going to be gay?

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Answer #1:

dont know .............

Answer #2:

You`re not gay..and what you`re going won`t make you gay.

Answer #3:

You're gay just for writting that much stuff on Yahoo Aswers.

Answer #4:

you say straight, u say gay....
u didnt mention Bisexual cuz thats another thing u could be ...
by reading this id say ur bi

Answer #5:

Somewhat normal, straight girls sometimes prefer lesbian porn because they can physically relate better. As long as you are sure that there is nothing emotional about it.

Answer #6:

BEING gay, means your into guys in a sexual way.


ACTING gay, does not make you "gay".


If your into chicks, then your not gay. you just act it sometimes

Answer #7:

huh. to make a Long sentence short, if you like girls then your not gay. ok

Answer #8:

sounds like your Bi-curious. I used to be like that too when i was your age.

Answer #9:

i dont think you're gay... the gay stuff you sai (porn) im sure that is a sexual fantasy many guys have but never admit

Answer #10:

well ur prolly bi. (bisexual). thats not AS bad as being gay.

Answer #11:

wall of text pleasemake it less

Answer #12:

i think youre just at the point in your life where you are curious about such a lifestyle. everyone (in my opinion) thinks this way sooner or later...its normal. it doesnt mean that your gay. maybe with a little more growing you will more so understand your "Sexuality" better. in relation to you watching gay porn? that in itself makes me think that you do have those sexual feelings towards men, but at the same time think about the guys that know that they are straight that cant even bear to look at such porn? you know how you feel, but in my opinion you are still just learning yourself, no need to stress it or worry about what you like right now, in due time you will know.

good luck!!

Answer #13:

dude your not gay! this happens to every guy they just dont admit it.
you seem to be one of those nice guys, im guessing a little shy.
dont worry this is very normal.
if you need some advice, talk to your dad, or the easy way spend time doin guy stuff, like not reading and go out side and sweat a little, and get aggresive, that will help!
get some guy friends too, and try to bring up your problem, see what they have to say.
btw im not gay.

Answer #14:

Being into things that aren't sports is completely normal for guys. And weight lifting won't change your sexuality. There's tons of male authors, who both read and write. There's nothing wrong with that. And having a better relationship with your mother doesn't determine sexuality either. I'm a girl, and I have a better relationship with my father, and I'm not gay.
Being the "go to guy" and a guy friend isn't a bad thing. It shows that the girls trust you enough to ask you for help and don't worry as much about you laughing at them, or backstabbing them like a girl would.

If anything, I'd say it's either hormones, bi-curiosity, or bisexualtiy, because you're still attracted to girls. The dreams will go away after your teenage years, and the feelings for men might fade. Usually, bisexuality/homosexuality doesn't go away, but if it's just bi-curiosity or hormones, it'll fade.

Answer #15:

I don't know too much about this stuff, but I get where you're coming from.
Its quite possible this is just a phase, or maybe you're bisexual. Have you ever tried exploring your homosexual side? I know that may sound crazy, but maybe you need to try it out to find out. From what I read, it seems that you're bisexual. And when I say this, you're a little more on the homosexual side. But you still like girls.
But it could also possibly be a sign you will be homosexual in the future when you're older and understand yourself even more. Don't be worried, there is nothing wrong with being homosexual nor bisexual. Maybe you should try dating girls, and maybe it'll lead you away from homosexuality more if you're so not into the whole idea.
But to be honest, its not something you can run from. Everything will be okay buddy (:

Answer #16:

You pretty much described me with your story except the whole gay part (no offense)
Not into the gay porn, quite frankly makes me wanna puke. (not gays just seeing even merely glimpses of gay sex, sexuality) I've always been like that with women as well. Once you get into the "friend zone" it is hard to establish ANY bounds of a relationship because it becomes awkward. I think you should establish your intentions ahead of time. As for being gay, you might be bi? I think this is not the behavior of a strictly straight person. I think you do have homosexual tendencies, even though they may be strictly sexual. I declare you Bi-Sexual. Have fun :)

Answer #17:

Well certainly as your an adolescent hormones are a factor in this situation. However, seeing as you're into "reading and writing" and you "pose deeper questions to girls" and you're mostly friends with girls, I'd say you're not gay but you have merely matured mentally more than your generation's guys. Being a guy and into reading and writing doesn't mean you're gay. Everyone has different interests and different hobbies. Also, your faster mental maturation means you have deeper questions and issues you wish to discuss. And seeing as science proves that girls physically and mentally mature faster and before boys, it's only natural that you would seek out intellectual equals to converse with: girls. Again, nothing wrong with this either, your mind is merely seeking someone to talk with and fully express or discuss the topics on your mind. Nothing wrong with not being interested in sports either, plenty of boys and men take little or no interest in athletics, it's normal. Society might be telling you that reading and writing, a lack of "macho" interests like athleticism, and your more deep conversations are feminine and thus associated with homosexuality. This is untrue. What you're describing is - believe it or not - normal. It just usually comes out later on in a man's life, after he has matured more. I'd say you're simply more mentally mature than most males. The gay porn thing is interesting and I'd say you're simply experimenting with your sexaulity which is also normal.

Answer #18:

I think you're bisexual...or it could be hormones

Answer #19:

well mate i went through this same thing in my teens, i'm gay now however started fooling around with girls when i was 13. and always got off on straight porn with my mates but when i was alone jacking off i'd go for bi or gay porn and wasnt until i was 21 that i realized that i am gay. what you are going through is normal and no different to str8 guys JO together. You will be fine just do what you feel comfortable with

Answer #20:

First of all, half of what you wrote was irrelevant. Playing sports, reading, not reading, and so on is really unimportant facts when you're talking about sexuality. That's purely about personality and preference, but not sexual preference.
And now: Most likely, you're just straight. Gay people do most of the time, think about dating, living together and such with guys. If you can't do those, you're most likely just straight. But, it's a bit hard to tell, since gay porn DOES turn you on and because of the dreams. Who knows, maybe you're bi, just leaning over to girls (imagine it as a weight scale where you put 4 pound on one side and 2 pounds on one side. Just to get an idea). It's nearly impossible for us to determine your sexuality, so this is something you have to figure out by yourself, since we can only guess and say what we think you -maybe- are.
Sorry for the littul wall of text~

Answer #21:

Well if you are a christian then you know being Gay is a sin!!! You need to pray and rebuke those evil thoughts. It is not normal to get off on the same sex. If you have any doubt of what sex you are then u probably are gay. Sorry! I or anyone who answer your question is not going to help. Finding out who u are comes from our self. PRAY and God will give you the answer u need.





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